The 10 Best Books on Assertiveness

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Here’s my curated list of the 10 best books for assertiveness, in no particular order.

The Assertiveness Workbook: How to Express Your Ideas and Stand Up for Yourself at Work and in Relationships by Randy J. Paterson — A practical guide that offers tools and exercises to help readers become more assertive in their personal and professional lives.
When I Say No, I Feel Guilty: How to Cope with a Difficult Boss, In-Laws, or Your Spouse by Manuel J. Smith — This classic book teaches readers how to assert themselves without feeling guilty and how to communicate effectively.
The Assertiveness Advantage: How to Take Control of Your Life by Lydia T. O'Connor — Focuses on building assertiveness skills, enhancing communication, and improving self-esteem.
Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha by Tara Brach — Combines Buddhist teachings with practical psychology to help readers embrace their true selves.
Assertiveness: How to Stand Up for Yourself and Still Win the Respect of Others by Dr. Margarida T. S. A. Castro — A comprehensive guide to being assertive while maintaining respect and relationships with others.
Dare to Lead: Brave Work. Tough Conversations. Whole Hearts. by Brené Brown — A powerful guide on how to lead with authenticity and courage.
The Power of a Positive No: How to Say No and Still Get to Yes by William Ury — Offers a method for assertively saying no while preserving relationships and fostering respect.
The Confidence Code: The Science and Art of Self-Assurance—What Women Should Know by Katty Kay and Claire Shipman — Explores confidence and its relationship with assertiveness, particularly focusing on women in the modern world.
Peak Self-Control by Said Hasyim — Focuses on building strong willpower to help individuals achieve their important goals effectively.
No More Mr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life by Robert A. Glover — Focuses on breaking free from people-pleasing behaviors and developing assertiveness in order to lead a fulfilling life.

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